Hello there, my personal mate of 7 years dumped me personally entirely out of the blue monthly ago. I imagined we had been greatly in love, we were about to buy a home and start children next season (a thing he had constantly informed me got their top want in life, to possess a child). The guy informed me the guy really wants to run going on his own, he has lost his spontaneity, that he detests residing in the top town we’re living in and therefore the guy donaˆ™t know if he wishes teenagers any longer. For me there have been no red flags, he had been sweet, sorts and pure. He listened very well, performed functions of kindness and assistance day-after-day and I couldnaˆ™t asked for a nicer sweetheart. Itaˆ™s so hard to understand what doing in a different way next time since it felt like an ideal relationship (for me personally). With the exception that he previously become sense in different ways for a few period ahead of the breakup and never communicated a jot in my experience. Thataˆ™s demonstrably a large red flag but i do believe the guy just didnaˆ™t wanna harmed me personally. Itaˆ™s all very confusing.